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 to one's home, still less into one's more intimate life.

One has to be on one's guard all the time against people that do not measure up to proper standards of conduct and character. Young people are often easily deceived by appearances.

But in general, young people of both sexes ought to go where they can meet those of the opposite sex, the better the place the better the chance of meeting the right kind of people.

Do not be too exclusive in your attitude and manner, and yet do not hold yourself cheaply, so that you will not be appreciated in the right way. Always have in mind that the girl who shuts herself away from the crowds is not apt to be seen. And one must be seen to be appreciated.