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 changed since. I have granted you the great thing, and why should I not grant the less?" (With this) he ordered him to wail.

4. When Зze-shang's mother died, and he did not perform any mourning rites for her, the disciples of (his father) Зze-sze asked him, saying, "Did your predecessor, the superior man, observe mourning for his divorced mother?" "Yes," was the reply. (And the disciples went on), "Why do you not make Pâi also observe the mourning rites (for his mother)?" Зze-sze said, "My progenitor, a superior man, never failed in pursuing the right path. When a generous course was possible, he took it and behaved generously; and when it was proper to restrain his generosity, he restrained it. But how can I attain to that? While she was my wife, she was Pâi's mother; but when she ceased to be my wife, she was no longer his mother." It was in this way that the Khung family came not to observe mourning for a divorced mother; the practice began from Зze-sze.

5. Confucius said, "When (the mourner) bows to (the visitor), and then lays his forehead to the ground,