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THE ENCHEIRIDION. that you are subject to vexation from external things.

ξ. In company, be it far from you to bring your own doings and dangers constantly and disproportionately into notice. For though it is pleasant for you to tell of your own dangers, yet your adventures are not equally pleasant for other persons to hear.

ο. Be it far from you to move laughter. For that habit easily slips into sensuality; and it is always enough to lower your neighbour's respect for you.

π. And it is dangerous to approach to vicious conversation, Therefore when anything of the kind may arise, rebuke him who approaches thereto, if you can do so opportunely. But if not, show at least by your silence, and blushing, and serious looks that his words are disagreeable to you.

HEN you have conceived the phantasm of some pleasure, guard yourself that you be not rapt-away by it, but delay with yourself a little and let the thing await you for a while. And then bethink